It's Time To Upgrade Your Marriage

Hi, I'm Nicole, and I help successful, high-achieving women create fulfilling, connected marriages with their husbands without blowing everything up.

If you love your husband but feel like you've outgrown him, you're in the right place.

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You love your husband... right?

You know he's a good guy. 

You want your marriage to work.

You don't want to leave.

But if you're honest?

You want more.

More connection. More support. More respect. More presence. More intimacy.

More partnership.

The problem is, once upon a time, someone told you that it's selfish to want more. That good wives don't ask their husbands to change. That once you're married to a "nice guy," your only options are to suck it up and deal with it - or leave.

Welcome to the corner of the internet where we don't buy that B.S.

In my world, your desires are your directions.
There is no such thing as asking for too much - not when you're a woman of integrity (which you are, by the way).

Around here, wanting more is not the problem. Not taking action on it is.

The truth is: You don't have to leave your partner to have an entirely different marriage.

You just need to change the role you play in it.

That's exactly why I created The Good Wife Detox.

It's designed for smart, successful, capable women like you who are ready to upgrade the standards in your marriage and create the partnership you crave - without questioning if you're allowed to ask for more, and without dragging your husband to couples counseling when he doesn't want to go (and that's not the real problem anyway).

In just 5 days, you'll uncover the patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that have you shrinking, over-functioning, and walking on eggshells - and step into the woman who expects more without apology.

This is the foundation. Everything else builds from here.

What's included:

5 self-paced modules

Identify the outdated "Good Wife" identity, uncover the root beliefs keeping you stuck, and activate the version of you who refuses to settle.

Journal prompts for deep reflection & integration

Each day includes powerful questions to help you process, integrate, and anchor the shifts you're making.

The identity reset that makes everything else possible

This isn't just behavior change - it's a complete rewiring of how you show up in your marriage. Once you shift your identity, the new actions become natural.

Investment: $47

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Ready for personalized support?

Let's work together.

The Good Wife Detox gives you the awareness.
1:1 coaching gives you the support to actually live it.

This is for women who are done trying to figure this out alone. You know what needs to shift - you just need someone in your corner helping you navigate the hard conversations, hold your boundaries when you're scared, and stay in your new identity when it gets uncomfortable.

This is the container where transformation happens.

What's included:

  • 3 or 6 month private coaching container (your choice)

  • 2 sessions per month (up to 90 minutes each)

  • Telegram support between sessions for real-time guidance

  • My proven framework for inviting your husband to rise without forcing or shrinking

  • Tools, resources, and accountability to make this shift permanent

Investment: Starting at $3,500 for 3 months

This is for the woman who:

✅ Has already done some personal development work (including therapy or coaching), is emotionally regulated and ready to be challenged
✅ Loves her husband but refuses to settle for mediocre
✅ Understands the value and importance of having a solid marriage and sees this as a strategic investment
✅ Wants private, high-touch support (not a group program) that allows her to move swiftly while creating deep, long lasting change

This is NOT for:

❌ Women in active crisis (affairs, abuse, active addiction)
❌ Women who want to vent and complain but not change
❌ Women who need hand-holding between sessions
❌ Women who haven't done any personal development work yet

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a little about me...

I'm a marriage coach, mom of 2, hardcore Virgo, and a 4/6 Sacral Generator.

I've navigated infidelity along with the dismissive avoidant/anxious attachment dynamic in my own marriage and come out the other side with a thriving partnership (16 years and counting!).

I know what it's like to feel like you've outgrown your husband - and I know how to bridge that gap.

I'm direct, boundaried, and I won't let you stay comfortable in patterns that aren't serving you. I believe your husband is capable of rising to meet you - but only if you change the dynamic and stop doing his emotional work for him.

My work isn't about fixing him. It's about becoming the woman who invites him to grow, and then holding space for that growth without managing it.

Not sure where to start? Book a call and let's talk